Navigating Life’s Lanes
Navigating Life’s Lanes
We've all heard the term "stay in your lane," and I never really gave it much thought. But the other day, in a deep conversation on a coaching call, my client said, "I need to stay in my lane." I was curious. I asked, "What thoughts or beliefs do you have about yourself that might be holding you back from reaching one of your lofty goals?" This is known as a limiting belief.
Limiting beliefs can create barriers, preventing us from taking risks, pursuing opportunities, or realizing our true capabilities. Now, it was time to dig deeper into this old saying! I looked it up, and what I read scared me a bit. "A cautionary phrase urging us to stick to what we know - REALLY?
In the highway of life, if you drive in that same lane all the time, how will you grow and change?
**Merge - The Carpool Lane**
Staying in that same lane may provide some safety and comfort. But one of my favorite sayings is, "the magic happens outside your comfort zone." We need to continue to grow and reach for new goals, and that involves having the courage to change lanes. Just like a car can't reach its destination without navigating different roads, how can we progress in life without getting out of our comfort zone? It may be time to get into the carpool lane. Find that person in your circle of genius who will drive the distance with you. That person who wants to help you reach your destination.
**Detour - Lane Closures**
With football on my mind right now (Go LIONS), I'm embracing the forward progress. Change is a constant in our life! For me, it's been about empty nesting, my newfound friendship with ulcerative colitis, transitioning out of a 32-year career as a studio owner. At points, my body said, "slow down," and I needed to listen. I am now moving into some uncharted territories. Embracing change involves being open-minded, flexible, and ready to navigate the twists and turns that come with the ever-evolving journey of life. Life will bring us lane closures - obstacles that force us to reroute. Instead of viewing these as setbacks, "snap the band" and look at these as opportunities for growth and change. New routes that may lead us to unexpected adventures.
**Road Work Ahead**
For the past six months, I've been in a new lane. Not breaking any 5K records anymore but growing as an IMPACT Life coach. And seriously, has it been rewarding! The learning was the challenge I needed! I'm filled with passion and purpose, ready to help others live life with zest and meaning! I'm surrounded by other fire-breathing dragons and feel the joy of surrounding myself with these amazing humans. Mastering these life skills is taking me to unexplored possibilities, and my potential seems unlimited! Just like road work is essential for maintaining and upgrading infrastructure, embracing change involves making necessary adjustments to pave the way for progress and development. It encourages a mindset that sees change as an opportunity for improvement rather than a hindrance.
**Scenic Viewpoint: Balancing Speed and Enjoyment**
But as we know from Joe Walsh, "life in the fast lane" poses its own risks. Life isn't just about the destination; it's about savoring the journey. Just like stopping to admire a beautiful mountainous range or sunrise, this sign encourages appreciating the moments of beauty, inspiration, and serenity in life. Taking breaks during a long drive, in life, it's important to pause, reflect, and recharge. This sign represents the need to enjoy moments of rest and relaxation.
**In the Complex Network of Life’s Lanes! Embrace Change.**
When was the last time you got out of your lane, tried something new, a new journey, just deciding to enjoy the ride and see where you may end up? It may end up by exploring the unfamiliar; you will discover the EXTRAORDINARY. So buckle up, adjust your mirrors, and get ready to navigate all the lanes life gifts us!
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